Today, my friend had a fight with her boyfriend again, and though she mentioned she doesn't want to burden me with her misery, but I was still keen to stand by her and listen. I felt maybe I didn't get to solve her problem, however, I can only share with her my silly jokes and listen to her heart felt feelings. I know at some point in the relationship she was very conditional over him, but it's not up to me to mention it to her, I hinted her, so it depends whether she gets it or not. She tried to change him, and hope he can be what she wants, which I feel it's the mistakes of all mankind in the entire Universe. We all know we shouldn't be there to change someone for the sake of changing, it's what make love so conditional. Nonetheless, not everyone can see his own blindspots, no matter in terms of love, work or family/friends. There's a saying from the Buddha scriptures, "The path to Hell is full of good intentions, the path to Heaven is full of actions with good intentions" How true is that, we always identify people's intention to be good, but when it comes to actions, it's entirely opposite, and they wonder why miscommunication happens. With my relationship with Jeff, I feel we have helped each other to handle the situation quite well. Though it always feel our relationship is still there, however it's still different now. God bless both of us.
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